Mangalik in the family house (Kuja Dosha)- Part 2!
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This
post is for any beautiful Soul out there who is struggling with the stamp of
"Mangalik" stamped on their forehead! Read the posts. You would later
congratulate yourself that you are indeed a Mangalik! I will be writing
four to five posts in this series, hopefully! Fingers crossed!
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Hope all of you are doing well and keeping yourself safe during this pandemic. As all of you know, there has been new developments in Afghanistan and the people there are finding a very new reality staring in their face, whatever they knew as a fledgling democratic government has gone by the way side. They are looking at very dark days again. This is what happens when anything religion, politics, family or cultural values overtakes every aspect of life and the people become puppets in the hands of the so-called propaganda or concepts. In such cases the individual self-will of the person is negated or even decimated. The concept or propaganda or agenda of the greater party, organization. politics or religion takes charge. Let us wait and watch.
Last week, we discussed how a Mangalik is a very compassionate and kind hearted Soul, as they are not able to stand strong on their will power, they sway according to every person who comes into their life. It becomes all about the other and their self-will/energy gets negated from the picture. As long as they don't realize these dynamics, their life and energy are not working for them, when they are not taking decisions from their will, where are they in the picture? Even though the body is there, energetically they are not in the picture.
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| Karthikeya or Skanda- Mars energy of army chief Image credits - H Krishna Sastri, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons |
Will power: Here, with the Mangalik that is missing. They want to do something. But due to weak will power they are not able to speak or act on their desires, intentions or perspectives. Due to the fear of backlash from others, they align, and align. Soon enough, the person wants to do something and they end up doing another thing based on the perspectives of the others. First it would be which dress to wear or how to act. Soon, it would be how to live, whether to go for a career or have a say in the decisions of their own life.
As a current scenario of the world goes very well with this theme, I am going to discuss it here. Think about the ladies and girls of Afghanistan and Syria. Last week, in the blog, we saw how a weak Mars would eventually affects every other planet and the person is energetically negated. Think about all the ladies and girls who are tied up at home or in another place doing things against their wishes, desires, aspirations and dreams. As many of you know, the males have more testosterone. Remember this post is not against any religion, political parties, groups, ideas, concepts or thought process. But just how many things play into the dynamics. This blog is about the truth - "as I see it". Another Soul definitely can have very different ideas. As long as we are not hurting ourselves and anyone else, the ideas can exist and even thrive.
So, the hormone testosterone is as if a shot of pure energy, but very physical aspect of it. As males have more testosterone definitely, they are going to have more physical power, compared to females. But females have more estrogen, the hormone of compassion and nurturing. So, the males are going to have physical power for sure. But how will a mature adult male behave? Would they use their natural gift of physical power to over-rule other beings who have lesser power or would they above protecting themselves protect the beings who by nature have less physical power?
Here is where it should be understood whether the same Mars- Karthikeya or the army chief is working from the higher vibrations or lower vibrations. A higher vibrational Mars is a leader/protector. Karthikeya was the army chief of the Gods. Above protecting the Gods, he even has the job to protect gandharvas (celestial singers), kinnaras (celestial nymphs), apsaras (celestial dancers) and the humans. Mars working through the higher vibrations and ideals. Such a Mars has to control the physical power, channel it towards the support, betterment of others, societies and less powerful beings. So, in that case how many leaders are doing the jobs? Are they taking care of their flocks?
Yesterday read a lady journalist was killed in Afghanistan by stone throwing. Who gave another person right to throw stones at an innocent being who was courageous enough to stand with the truth? Shouldn't the lady be protected and given more chances to write the truth? Same way, is a female meant to be used as a commodity? What about her thoughts, ideas and aspirations? Now, many in Afghanistan and Syria are being used and tortured. The name of the religion or propaganda is just a mask. What is the underlying energy? The lower aspects of Mars are running amok.
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| Taliban offensive 2021 Image credits - Abdulbasir Ilgor (VOA), Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons |
A powerful Mars would have deepest of will power; above taking care of themselves they take deep pride in taking care of others. How to take care of others? The others should have the right and will power to exist as full beings, not as half or quarter beings. (My dad had shared a story where his mom, my grand-ma once asked it seems- That is about 1/2 and 1/4 kids. But what about this full kid. I guess she got the concept,) In many places of the globe, people are being made voiceless, especially ladies and girls. Every human is a full being with voice, value and worth- whether society, others or their own religions, political parties accept it or not.
Yes, it is the 21st century. But humanity has a very long way to understand the true concept of free will, will power and choices. Many times in the name of religion, propaganda, ideas, concepts, politics and parties, humans are being made voice-less, will less beings with no value and worth. An idea if it suffocates another and doesn't allow them to live as they are, that idea is just wrong and is an intellectual bu🔅🔅. Humans even go to the level of brain washing another in the name of religion, party propaganda and cultural rituals and many times the human that is being brainwashed cannot think outside this very small boundary of a concept. To keep them very aligned, we bring sin, paap (Hinduism), haraam and all. Actually, humans are free beings. Only they themselves have zero clue about it and keep themselves tied up to non-working concepts, ideas and thoughts for their own life.
Second house: Second house is the close home or the family house. The family that we stay within every day is the family house. The place that we call home. This second house is not just the physical house alone, but the metaphorical relationships also that give us that feeling of a home. So, this house spans the whole entire physical life. The body that is us, the first house- lagna (ascendant) that is getting placed within the second house of our dwelling. In truth, this dwelling is also our mind. Mind is the Moon; so second house to the Moon also becomes important.
Even if the first house is terrific, if the second house is damaged, that is going to affect the first house of the body. If a person cannot stay within their own house with peace and joy, how can their body or mind work well? If the second house is damaged, the next house of third- voice and communication becomes damaged. Let us bring the Mars here. Mars is a fiery planet. May be for this particular chart owner the planet Mars is not a friendly planet. There are friends and enemies in Vedic astrology among planets. Suppose a weak Mars is getting placed in the second house.
What happens? The family environment of the person gets damaged. Also, if this Mars is sitting in an enemy house, the will power of the person becomes low. As we know, all of us are born as babies. Any time this baby tries to use his/ her will power to do or say something, may be other kids or other adults chide them not to. As we all know, these dramas of family and society have been playing in the world from time immemorial. This baby or toddler or youth may think sharing his/ her opinions or thoughts are not okay. They start to swallow their opinions and suggestions.
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| How is the family - Is it chaotic energy? Image credits - Pixabay.com |
This person already has less will power, they just keep quiet. They won't over-ride that chide and try to put in their two cents. Like this without opening their mouth and being quiet, they slowly allow others to over-take their will power. Any time our will power is not used to stand on our truth, our energy and Soul pieces start to melt away. The person slowly starts to lose their heart or inner essences. Every Soul who has come here has a natural state of balance, harmony, peace and their inner truths. If we are not forthright to accept and embrace our own inner truths, we are actually deceiving ourselves. Self- deception!
This particular person as they have to align to the ideas, value points and thought processes of others and are not upholding their own truths, slowly their energetic signature starts to fade away. In other words, even though the person is there in the body, they would feel less energy and weak, the energetic value of the person is slowly disappearing. They are thinking they are not valuable enough to speak, share or stand up for their truths. If they themselves think they are not valuable enough and act in that way, think about the others. They also treat this person the same way.
Back to the ladies and girls who have less physical power. If they don't listen, align or do as they are being told, they can be hit, hurt, threatened, verbally abused or even killed. In this scenario, the home which is meant to be a safe haven takes the form of a prison or control camp. Here comes the Mars who is damaged. Many times, this Mars may try to fume and even try to overpower the other due to the deep voicelessness or worthlessness they feel. Such a Mars who feels deep fear can bring in fights and arguments. They are actually trying to retake the lost power they feel.
This is another area that we come to know. The power of the innate being to exist as who they are. This is being over-ridden by others. People many times only look at the physical abuse that happen. But the mental and emotional toll is enormous. Remember this family can also be the school dorm, hostel or the convent where the kids grew up. It is not necessary home should be just the home. It can even be the cult or organization or religious order the kid or the human stays or dwells. The person starts to lose themselves.
The curse: The curse really is the deep fear, voicelessness or the worthlessness the person with the second house Mars may feel. The energy of the Soul itself is getting removed from the picture. Now, bring into mind someone who even though in a body feels like a very energy less being. This can be from the mind where the person thinks they are not good enough or they have been put down or side-lined so many times, they have started losing Soul essences and aspects within themselves.
Until now, we just discussed the effect for this one life time. Now, extend it to other lifetimes. What if the person has carried this deep essence of valueless-ness or voicelessness from another lifetime? Such a person whatever they feel or achieved in this lifetime, in another lifetime they have lost so many pieces they always are feeling afraid and weak. This state of less Soul value, beings can bring from other lifetimes. In this lifetime as they brought those previous dynamics within them, their Soul attracts that previous scenario into this lifetime. Then, the decree becomes start working to overcome this challenge.
The energy of the will powerlessness may have become so entrenched in the Soul; the Soul may not even remember a fearless state. When we meet a person, it is better not to judge them. They may be carrying burdens of other lifetimes. As a spiritual being we should and must try to encourage and empower any being as much as possible. We don't know what kind of cross they are carrying. So, for such a person, the will power of another person in this lifetime becomes another cross they have to carry or decimate to come out.
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| How is the family - Is it beautiful energy? Image credits - Pixabay.com |
The second house is a very private house. It is very close to the first, the being. In many cases others or public may not even know such abuse is happening. Read a story last year about an eight or nine year old boy who became a victim to his mom and boyfriend's abuse; later died. The police report said the poor Soul had not an inch on his body where a cut or a cigarette burn or a beating mark had not happened. An eight-year-old boy, what even does that child know. Nobody knew about the abuse, and the police and other relatives came to know about it by virtue of the boy's death.
Here, the others become the strong-willed Mars and the boy becomes the damaged second house of Mars placement, the Mangalik. This kid didn't even know how to ask for anything. He was locked many days under the cabinet of his kitchen sink with no food or water and only to be brought out for abuse. The home and haven becoming the prison and concentration camp. May be for this poor Soul, death itself was the way out.
Strong will: So, it is utterly necessary to help a baby or encourage an adult/kid to develop a strong will. A strong willed and mature person never intimidates and abuse another. The Mars in its highest vibration is a leader and protector. Sometime I even feel sad for no fault of Mars, he is being judged and devalued. Hope you have heard the proverb- "A fearful dog bites". Many times, the anger and the rage a second house Mars shows is to protect themselves, self-defense or self-preservation. Self- preservation is an act where the Soul or being tries to maintain his or her integrity as a being. If there is no energy, then where is the being? The being is not there anymore.
This person instead of tussling with others should find value within themselves. Our value comes from us, not from how others perceive us. Anyone who is trying to fix another's perception is actually wasting their time, energy, effort and mind. Because as long as a being doesn't feel the power within, in their Soul. heart and mind, nobody is going to accept their innate power. Trying to fix another's perception, this being is still not helping themselves. Whatever others feel or perceive about them, they are feeling they are not good enough.
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| Karthikeya on a peacock Image credits - Vasukrishnan57, via Wikimedia Commons |
But then remember, second house is our family- the closest. If they don't get pure value, honesty and integrity from us, who else deserves that more. Many times, people are ready to preach to the whole world, but don't extend the same truths and ideas to their own family and inner circle. I stand to differ. The family or the second house needs even more honesty, truth, integrity and value system, especially of glowing standards. Because the greater friends and acquaintances are once a while life visitor. But the family visits our life every day.
This write up is not from a space of lord/servant, bourgeois/ proletarian or owner/ tenant. But from a human, energy and emotions perspective. Because whether we like it or not, every single Soul is a renter in this Earth. When the time comes the renter has to give away the body and leave this place. So, why not take care of the true being? A human who has found himself/ herself in a beautiful green planet (Who knows, if we are not careful from green it can become desert planet due to climate change) for a short time with value, worth and will power in their private space- Mars in the second house of family and home! Should it be a Mangalik- voiceless or Mangala- auspicious? Always the person's free will and choice!